Is the fashion worth recycling? No. Do we have a Pandora station dedicated to ‘90s Hip hop? Yes. Do we revert ‘90s vernacular? Duh.
A most memorable catchphrase the youth used (and overused) when encountering topics, conversations, peoples or obstacles they did not want to face the circumstances:
Talk to the hand!!!
However, it gets better - because this colloquialism was not just uttered. The hand was lifted, and the head was dramatically turned away, “Talk to the hand…because the face just can’t understand.”
While this catchphrase may have died and become obsolete and extinct one thing has held on steadfast.
So that is the body language. It may not be so overt. It may not be so dramatic. But it gets the best of us when we clock in and we work alongside co-workers who far too often we see as the opposing force. Co-workers are team members but when every encounter provokes topics and conversations that seem like insurmountable obstacles our body language soon assumes a talk to the hand pose.
We become stiff. We avoid meeting their eyes; we roll our eyes. We avoid them in the halls. We give them our back.
Perhaps you’ve been on the receiving end. Perhaps you’ve been the generous benefactor.
What causes this alienation?
It stems from unsolicited advice. We all know the type: The person who is too eager to offer advice.
Here are a few quick questions to ask yourself when you think you have something wise and witty to say. This guideline that will help you know when people are more likely to be receptive to information. It might take you awhile to redeem yourself, but it is time for your team to pull together. Here’s a good place to start:
- Is there a problem or is it just an opportunity for you to express your opinion?
- Will it inspire your people?
- Will it enhance the work culture?
- Will it build your team’s relationship?
- Will it open the doors for creative collaboration?
- Will it encourage your team’s strengths?
- Will it be a wise use of your time?
- Will it utilize the tools your company provides?
- Will it benefit your community?
- Will it give an opportunity for a teammate to play devil’s advocate?
- Will it be okay if it fails?
- Will it encourage people to step up to be leaders?
Are you ready to lead your team to a new formula of FAQ's?
If you have any questions for us, we are always eager to encourage and inspire!
-The Green Couch